Indecisive Thinking is often referred as Broken Mind by the people?
Broken mind? Really? I always thought that only non-living things breaks? How mind can be broken? Mind always remains intact whether one uses it wisely or not. People often confuse with the way they think and ability of mind to decide. And they blame mind for their indecisive thinking.
Everyone seeks education to gain knowledge of various subjects but what education doesn’t teaches us is “how to optimize” the knowledge for own or others benefits. This is left to individual’s abilities and commitment. That’s why in spite of having same education, people achieve differently in their lives. People who have stabilized or decisive thinking achieve more.
Mentoring is a buzz word now the days and people actively look for mentors to overcome their status of indecisiveness . No wonder they opt for counseling/ a mentor. I highly appreciate those who are willing to seek other person help to sort out clutter of their mind/ thinking and overcome the status of indecisiveness.
Seeking other person’s help to decide on a particular topic/ issue can be good and helpful but can’t be a good option for everything of day to day life. Hence, one need to develop decision taking capabilities. For this one need to “Train” or “Tame” his/ her mind. Though it might sound as a herculean task but fact is that it’s easy to train mind provided one is willing to try honestly and continuously.
Going forward with Indecisive Thinking:
To explain, best example can be of Athletes who train themselves for 100 meters World Championship race. These athlete train themselves everyday for years before they win their first race. They practice everyday, they do various activities and go through training regime repeatedly everyday without getting bored or restless. Such athletes put in a Continuous Conscious Effort. They learn how to burn their entire energy in less than 10 seconds which can make them win the race.
So, instead of feeling depressed or indecisive about how your mind work… get up start training your mind. Activate your brain cells. Get in your thinking cap. Whenever you have confusion…. stop. Think from different point of views, seek information, ask questions to yourself or consult. If you can do similar things and practice over a period of prolonged time, I am sure one will not have a broken mind or indecisive thinking.